These are the seven questions to explore what comes up in the body before the mind organises a response. Simply notice the words, images, sensations that come up. 

  1. What does safety mean to you?
  2. What holds you back in relationships?
  3. During sex, where is your attention?
  4. Are your needs met by your romantic partners? 
  5. What is your relationship to your pleasure? Do you self pleasure?
  6. If you could shift one thing in your intimate life, what would it be?